The oldest Huffman had been at her new college for around two months
when the school invited us to its annual parents’ weekend, otherwise
known as “Mom and dad, come visit and bring your checkbook.”
For a
mom who had not seen her firstborn in about eight weeks — OK, 63.5 days
— I was looking forward to the trip. Correction: I was pretty much
dying to see our girl.
She’d left with barely a warning, and now
she was living her new college girl life and I just had to clamp my own
eyes on her to believe it. Plus I was sure she needed me for something.
Arriving
in Boulder, Colo., we headed straight to see her at work at a local toy
store. I figured her boss wasn’t expecting an emotional mother and
child reunion between the Playmobil and Legos, so I tried to be cool
when I walked in, but oh, seeing her again I had the best feelings in
all the history of feelings.
I could hardly take my eyes off her.
She looked good. She looked happy. She hadn’t starved, crashed her bike,
gotten visible tattoos, dropped out of school or become homeless.
After
she detangled herself from my
mother-who-hasn’t-seen-her-daughter-in-63.5-days hug, we went to get
lunch, where she even let me hold her hand for about 30 seconds, which
was probably 23 seconds too long for her but three hours too short for
me.
I wanted to pick her up and put her on my lap and squeeze her
some more, only we had just gotten there and I was afraid she’d tell us
to turn around and go right back home this instant.
She said she
needed a bike fender and helmet, so she went back to work and we went to
a bike store, where my husband got her fender and helmet plus the
brightest bike light he could find.
It’s 400 lumens, my husband noted with satisfaction.
I’m not sure what a lumen is, but if 400 of them are illuminating our girl’s bike, that sounds pretty good to me.
The
next day her school invited us to an informational seminar about
contemplative education, but we had bigger plans — a trip to
SuperTarget.
We got fuzzy lined boots. We got shampoo. We got a
can opener, a step stool, paper towels and a jumbo bag of Halloween
candy. We got a furry rug for her floor and a hanging organizer for her
closet. I tried to talk her into a handy underbed storage box but she
declined. I guess College Girl is capable of figuring out her own
underbed storage strategies from now on. Sigh.
We found a tool kit
to install the bike fender that included screwdrivers and even a
hacksaw. She said she wouldn’t need the hacksaw, but we got it anyway.
Who knew when a fallen branch from a freak snowstorm would need to be
sawed up for emergency kindling? She does live in the mountains, after
all.
Cart filled, we stopped to get some breakfast at Starbucks inside the SuperTarget.
She and my husband ordered heated ham sandwiches.
Ahhh, she sighed, eating her sandwich.
Now I’m all warm inside, she said.
“We are, too,” said my husband.
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